Musing 1: What Makes me Qualified
One would expect a blog on financial wisdom containing
great investment Mantras to be helmed
by a rich business tycoon or a successful entrepreneur or a stock market
wizard. I clearly fit none of these or any other such roles even remotely.
Indeed, whatever I have achieved financially over last three decades is rather
modest, verging on the side of below average. Why then am I bothering you to
even read what I have to tell you about financial wisdom? If I had this wisdom
wouldn’t I have done better financially myself? Please read this blog to learn what I did not
do towards my personal finance, or did it too late to give me a peace in life. I
am not uneducated, in fact far from it. I hold triple Master Degrees-Master of
Science, Master of Philosophy and Master of Management Studies, where one of
the subjects was Financial Management. But I consider myself financially uneducated as I could not
translate my theoretical knowledge into tangible personal financial outcomes. This
blog thus, is my cry of anguish, a lament of what I could not achieve
financially despite having the greatest weapon for financial freedom at my
disposal-a steady paycheck, all these 30 years.
It is also
not my argument that money is the be all and end all of all things good in
life-definitely not. A rich and fulfilling life can be enjoyed even without
being rich so far one sets one’s life goals appropriately and enjoys a good
family life and health. I have been singularly lucky to have an amazingly
supportive family who have never faulted me for not being able to give them
more, at least materially, than what I could. However, this guilt remains in me
that I could have done more, much more for them as also for the society, if I
was better off monetarily. Having a decent sum of money liberates oneself to
pursue one’s profession and passions in life without bothering for the next
meal (in extreme cases) or the next paycheck. I will recall Maslow’s hierarchy
of needs Theory here- It is difficult to work at self esteem and self actualization
without having one’s basic needs of Roti, Kapda aur Makaan (Home, food and
clothing) having been met. My financial naiveté has to a great extent been my
handicap which any decently educated person should endeavour to correct.
The seeds
of future victory are invariably found in past defeats, one just needs to analyze
the root causes of defeat and try to chart a new course without reinforcing the
trends and habits of the past defeat. I must confess that I was always careless
about money. I lurched from one financial mistake to another without really
learning any true lessons. The monthly pay used to come like clockwork- fruits
of a Government job, and then go away as easily, without leaving a trace of any
tangible asset that one created out of it. I had no idea about how and where it
was being spent over the course of the month and the year. In a way, I was not
managing my money; rather the money was managing me. The monetary crisis always
used to start around middle of the month and then the struggle was to somehow
get through to the next paycheck, which used to meet the same fate. It was not
that we were indulging in luxury vacations, dining and shopping, far from it.
We were living frugally, or we thought so, and yet running on a financial
treadmill, which did not cover any real distance on ground. The pay used to
rise every year, but so did the expenses and I found no way to arrest this
vicious trend.
It is not
that I did not plan for my finances- I did, but not always very wisely or
methodically and ended up making series of mistakes like choosing my financial
advisors incorrectly, never following through with whatever half baked plan was
at hand and jumping from one financial instrument to another. I wish to share
these investing mistakes with you along with the blueprint or the path I would
have followed if I were to live my life all over again. I hope and pray that
the seeds of your financial victory will be found at the altars of my financial
naiveté and mistakes.
The
greatest weapon in life is knowledge and its effective utilization. However,
unfortunately in our country there is no institutionalized system of teaching a
child the basics of financial matters in schools or colleges. At home, in most
of the families, any discussion on finances in front of the children is
forbidden. So how does a child learn about finances- The hard way like I did
with hit and trial? The problem with this approach is that most of the times
one gets the wrong kind of advice to act upon and secondly one loses precious time
of investing in life, a commodity which can never be replaced whatever one
tries subsequently. I will discuss this issue at length later.
Since the time I realized
that I was in a financial soup and needed to change my attitude towards money
and finances, I decided to arm myself with knowledge and wisdom. I read books
by financial masters, gobbled up articles and magazines on finances, chatted at
length with people who had done well financially and tried to evolve some basic
fundamentals, which if followed scrupulously by a youngster or indeed anyone at
any stage in life, would result in financial peace and freedom. The problem
with all such literature, however was that it was written in a language which
is difficult to be understood by a High School student-the correct stage in
life to my mind, for a child to get educated on financial matters.
I hence decided to simplify
the financial jargon to a language which a 17-18 year old could understand and
internalize. Of course I have included all the resources in the Bibliography
for those who wish to go deeper into the concepts and arm themselves even
better. However, even if one has to just read this blog without the additional
resources mentioned, the benefits are still going to be significant. I have on
purpose, kept the chapters Bite-Size
so that they could be tackled one or two at a time and thus incrementally add
to the financial wisdom of the reader. To that extent it is important that one
goes through the entire material in sequence without trying to jump forward out
of curiosity. The chapters are more in form of concepts which need to be
understood and applied rather than the factual data which is liable to change
over time.
The blog is in the form of
musings which I wish to communicate to my children as a (Financially)
illiterate father who embarked upon the journey of financial wisdom and
knowledge and having acquired it, wishes to leave this as a legacy with them or
indeed with any child. I am conscious that at my age I may not be able to
financially recover adequately to leave them with huge financial assets. But
then who knows?
I will begin by reiterating
that whatever follows in this book is attributable to some financial master
whose name I have mentioned in the footnotes/bibliography. If inadvertently, I
have omitted to cite someone, it may be purely out of an oversight for which I
apologize in advance. But since the book is meant for the benefit of society at
large, I hope this small error of mine, if there, will be forgiven. So let us
together embark on this journey of financial wisdom and peace.
A touch of humour and slice of truth... Touches the chords of many folks who find their reflections staring at them in the words of the author.... Kudos and looking forward to taking a bite..... Bit by bit...!!
ReplyDeleteThanks. Next musing coming up tomorrow
DeleteThank you sir
ReplyDeleteTimely financial management will help all of us. Looking forward for your valuable guidance
ReplyDeleteThanks Ravi
DeleteInteresting read..!
ReplyDeleteGood one for a start sir...
FE is a Very interesting topic. keeping children away from financial decisions during the school days is common practice among "service class parents" but taken care by parents who are either enterpreneurs or ownes their Business. As a result when former looks to get a job, the later begins to creat a job.
ReplyDeleteAnand Sir, thanks for starting the blog, it will certainly help children to understand personal finance and encourage parents to involve their children in every financial decisions.
Happy Blogging
Thanks Boura. Will look forward to your observations
DeleteAmzed to see some of your honest confessions ...your attempt to invite a brain storming through this blog is actually a great step.... what I'd look fwd in a book on financial planning for youths ...I feel at first on developing an elementary understanding in children helping them to discriminate the needs of life from basic necessities to luxuries...secondly it should work as a guide to young parents as in how to inculcate habits of saving in their children right from very early age ..be it from water , food or their pocket money..
ReplyDeleteAny ways good luck and all the very best for your blog and upcoming book..will keep on sharing my observation/suggestions ..����
Thanks Gagan, so nice of you. Will be looking forward to your astute observations.
DeleteTruly a need of the hour sir. Well penned. I did miss out for a long time. Maybe even I need to learn..All the very best.
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